As a mother of 2 energetic boys…Connor 6 and Bryce 4…I find myself…on a daily basis… finding ways for them to exert their energy! Like playing kick ball on the street…hitting tennis balls off a tee…or heading to a nearby playground or park with a splash pad.
When my boys do not have this outlet…for boys to just be boys…to go run…jump… play…collect bugs…explore the outdoors…they drive me bonkers and I find my patience tested!
God forbid we have rainy day here in Arizona and we get cooped up in the house all day! Playing board games indoors like Candyland…Trouble…and Sorry only go so far!
And so when my patience is tested I find myself asking God to give me patience…because there are certainly days I feel that I have absolutely no patience! Have you had any of those days?
I can laugh…for a minute at least…as I am reminded of the lines from the movie Evan Almighty…where Morgan Freeman who plays God asks…
“Let me ask you something. If someone prays for patience, you think God gives them patience? Or does He give them the opportunity to be patient?”
And then reality sets in that God has given me yet another opportunity to grow in patience when my boys are wrestling each other on the family room floor!
As Christians…we may all be familiar with patience being a fruit of the Spirit in the Bible.
But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law. Galatians 5:22-23 NASB
The “fruit of the Spirit” is a biblical term that sums up the nine visible attributes of a true Christian life.
I have always found it interesting that the scripture says “fruit” and not “fruits.” Have you ever wondered that?
And there are some scholars and commentaries that may actually refer to the ‘fruits” rather than “fruit” of the Spirit. However, we can see clearly from this scripture that the singular “fruit” is used.
I do personally believe…and others may beg to differ… this is significant because the original Greek term translated as “fruit” is singular signifying that there is one fruit with nine attributes. And thus…I believe these are not individual “fruits” from which we can pick and choose.
For instance, an apple may have the following attributes: red…round… sweet… edible…seeded…juicy. But it is still an apple…one apple with these 6 attributes.
So the “fruit of the Spirit” is one “fruit” of the Spirit with nine attributes.
And even more importantly…we must understand that as Christians…we all have the fruit of the Spirit available to us! We don’t have to ask God for patience…or love…or joy…or peace…etc. because we already have it in us!
When we give our life to Jesus…the fruit of the Spirit…all nine attributes… are planted inside us in seed form. We are given the fruit of the Spirit…by the Holy Spirit!
And so although we don’t need to ask God specifically for these nine attributes…what we may need to ask for is a greater yield of this fruit on a daily basis…or determine what may be hindering the seed planted in us from further growing.
Because ultimately, Jesus commands us to produce fruit.
When you produce much fruit, you are my true disciples. This brings great glory to my Father. John 15:8 NLT
So are you producing much fruit? Which attributes do you struggle with most?
Do you struggle with love…joy…or peace?
Do you struggle with patience…kindness…goodness?
Do you struggle with faithfulness…gentleness…or self-control?
We all have fruit of the Spirit attributes to further develop and grow. Uuugh…patience and self- control our certainly my big ones! And after reading further…I can probably add more to my list!
Check out each of these attributes and do a self-examination to determine which attributes you may need to further develop and grow.
Dear children let us not love with words or speech but with actions and in truth. 1John 3:18 NIV
Is your love unconditional? Or is your love most evident when everything goes your way?
This type of fruit keeps on loving even when it’s difficult to show affection to others. The capacity to love grows out of the agape love…the selfless, sacrificial, and unconditional love…from the heavenly Father.
For the joy of the Lord is your strength. Nehemiah 8:10 NIV
Can you have joy in the midst of difficult circumstances? Or is your joy based upon a false joy that is found in people…places…possessions…positions…or personalities?
Not that anyone of us should be joyful about the hard times, but rather our joy comes from God who is with us…in it and through it. God uses every trial to help us become stronger in the faith.
Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:6-8 NIV
Are you consumed with anxiety and worry when everything falls apart? Or can you rest in God’s peace?
There is no peace for the wicked (Isaiah 48:2). But for us as Christians…it is available every time we pray and leave our concerns with God.
Being strengthened with all power according to his glorious might so that you may have great endurance and patience. Colossians 1:1NIV
Can you be still and wait on God? Or are you tempted to always move ahead so you can stay in control?
Patience is a fruit that will grow with your experience of being stretched in faith especially in times of trial. Forbearance is another word for patience…We don’t have to pray for patience…it’s there already!
A servant of the Lord must not quarrel but must be kind to everyone, be able to teach, and be patient with difficult people. 2 Timothy 2:24 NIV
Do others sense your kindness in words and actions? Or are they more accustomed to your angry response?
A gentle word…soft answer…or a helping hand…all demonstrate the fruit of kindness in our culture of unfortunate rudeness and selfishness.
Dear friend, do not imitate what is evil but what is good. Anyone who does what is good is from God. Anyone who does what is evil has not seen God. 3 John 11NIV
Are your conversations marked with genuine virtue and honor? Or is your conversation tainted with worldly language…immoral tendencies…or gossip?
Goodness doesn’t mean that we are perfect…but rather someone who sincerely reflects the integrity of God within. A Christian who demonstrates the fruit of goodness has the tendency to believe the best about people.
Now it is required that those who have been given a trust must prove faithful. 1 Corinthians 4:2 NIV
Does your reputation reflect dependability and steadfastness in the faith? Or do people expect you to be late…undependable…or irresponsible?
Our faithfulness represents God’s Spirit dwelling within. Those who cultivate the fruit of faithfulness are compelled to complete every good work for His glory.
Let your gentleness be evident to all. The Lord is near. Philippians 4:5NIV
Is your gentle and meek spirit felt around those who live or work with you? Or do they feel that you are a hard and legalistic person to deal with?
A spirit of gentleness gives grace freely…and consistently. Believers and unbelievers should feel at ease around us because of our presence of gentleness.
For the grace of God has appeared that offers salvation to all people. It teaches us to say “No” to ungodliness and worldly passions, and to live self-controlled, upright and godly lives in this present age. Titus 2:11-12 NIV
Do you control your appetites? Or do they control you?
Christians can demonstrate a life of self-control and discipline in a world where every day is an opportunity to allow our flesh to take control. We have the power through the Spirit to control our worldly desires and actions.
Did you take note of any attributes that you struggle with? What may be hindering you from growing and maturing in these areas?
On our own…we will all struggle…I struggle!
But be encouraged! …Because we have been given the supernatural ability to overcome by the Holy Spirit! If the Holy Spirit planted the seed in us then He will certainly empower and strengthen us to grow and mature!
And furthermore…the growing of the fruit is not a passive process but an active one. We cannot do nothing and just expect the seed that is in us to grow!
Yes…we must abide in Jesus as John 15:5 says…But many of the nine attributes are listed elsewhere in the Bible as commands from God that we are to “do”!
We are commanded to “love.” (Matthew 22:37-39)… “be joyful” (1 Thessalonians 5:16)… “pursue peace” (2 Timothy 2:22)… “walk with patience” (Ephesians 4:2)… “clothe ourselves with kindness” (Colossians 3:12)… “do good to all men” (Galatians 6:10)… “stand fast in faith” (1Corinthians 16:13)… “show gentleness” (Titus 3:2)… “have self-control” (1 Corinthians 9:25-27).
These are all active commands for us to grow the seed that is planted in us…to grow the fruit of the Spirit to maturity.
If you notice the fruit of the Spirit begins with Love and ends with Self-control.
Evangelist and Bible teacher Joyce Meyer has an interesting perspective. She says…
[Love and Self-Control are like bookends. All the fruit of the Spirit comes out of love. You can’t have joy…peace…patience…etc without love. And all this is held in place by self-control.] Paraphrased
Whenever we have those days where we feel we have no patience…or whatever area we may be struggling with…we need to remind ourselves that we can’t do it in our strength. We need to continue pushing through and rely on the strength of the Holy Spirit!
The more we draw near to God…praying and reflecting on His Word…the more we will experience the fruit of the Spirit in our life.
We aren’t perfect and we never will be…but we can certainly grow and mature in the fruit of the Spirit.
- Do you find yourself asking God to give you patience…or joy…or kindness…or self-control, etc?
- Do you understand that as Christians we are actually given the nine attributes of the fruit of the Spirit? So we already have it!
- Are you producing much fruit? Which attributes do you struggle with most? What may be hindering you from developing and growing the seed that is planted in you?
- Do you struggle with love…joy…or peace? Do you struggle with patience…kindness…goodness? Do you struggle with faithfulness…gentleness…or self-control?
- When we give our life to Jesus…the fruit of the Spirit…all nine attributes… are planted inside us in seed form. We are given the fruit of the Spirit…by the Holy Spirit!
- And so although we don’t need to ask God specifically for these nine attributes…what we may need to ask for is a greater yield of this fruit on a daily basis…or determine what may be hindering the seed planted in us from further growing.
- God commands us to produce fruit. Read through each attribute listed and see which areas you may need a greater yield of in your life.
- Growing and maturing the seed that has been planted in us requires first and foremost that we are abiding in God and His Word. We will further mature as we pray and read God’s word on a daily basis.